Uncle John's passing

Irene's uncle John Liau has been getting weaker day by day since diagnosed of advanced gastric cancer early this year.

This wonderful man passed on two weeks ago.

Irene drove us back to Tenom for a day trip to attend the funeral in Kampung Baru Jumpa (I was too worn out from oncall the previous day).

The funeral service was held in SIB Kampung Baru Jumpa, by the pastors and team from the Basel Church of Tenom, where uncle John served as an elder.

Uncle John was a man with little material wealth. But he overflows with spiritual wealth. Many have been blessed by his hospitality and cheerful attitutude, his helping hand, and his words of wisdom. I myself, though knowing uncle John for just a couple of years, am amazed by the legacy he left behind. Uncle John's life taught me that one does not have to be rich, or even middle class, to be able to bless others with love, hospitality, and friendship. It all depends on whether we want to take the initiative to befriend others and make others feel welcomed. Uncle John was just a simple farmer who lives in a simple kampung house, shoulderig the burden of supporting the family; yet fervently serving the community through church and socio-political organisations. He was a youth leader in church during his younger days, and a community leader till his death. He gave himself, asking for little in return (unlike many politicians here in Sabah). His life touched many hearts; as you can see in the crowd that came for the funeral.

The usual way of the Lundayehs in Kampung Baru Jumpa, the village folks will help the grieving family to clear the area around the house, put up canopies and tents, cook the meals (rice wrapped in leaves, and lots of pork cooked with soy sauce). Visitors from near and afar would sit around to chat and console the greiving family.

Ryan made some new kampung friends.

The family had a prayer service at the home at night. But we were already headed back to KK by then.

Ian's wedding

Some belated photos of the trip to Kinabatangan & Lahad Datu for Ian's wedding.

Stopover at Sabah Tea Plantation. Small scale tea plantation only la (compare to Cameron Highlands).

The wedding in Kg Paris Baptist Church.

Lunch reception outside the church.

"Can I have your handphone number ah?"

Dinner reception.

The last day hanging out in Lahad Datu.

Visitors

Ryan's grandparents and auntie&uncle&cousin came over for a weekend visit. Also to celebrate Ryan's 2nd birthday.


"Yeh yeh got new toys!"

Ryan was really excited. He was screaming and jumping around, showing his grandparents around the house... and talking away dunno-what. Kesian little boy, rarely get so much visitors to shower him with all the attention. Also, he has a little cousin baby girl to chat with... baby language la, they seem to understand each other. One does the talking and the other does the laughing.

"Let me teach you how to karaoke."

Hang around in KK only. Didn't go outstation coz the time was really tight.

Went to the market to buy seafood (cccchhhheeeaaaapppp seafood by West Malaysian standards), shopping, eating, sleeping... ya. We had a great time.

Of course a visit to the latest pride of KK, the OneBorneo (well, it doesn't really impress West Malaysians though, who have so many megamalls to chose from).

"My funny birthday cake!"

And a Sabah seafood dinner to mark the end of the trip.


If you don't believe that time flies, here's Ryan at the four-teeth-boy (or was it six) stage at his last birthday. Now he's full of teeth.

Next time hor, when his parents are old hor, I'll be showing you photos of us visiting Ryan, and his little boy/girl.

Medical work

I was in this Hospital for a brief couple of days during my Medical Elective time. The above logo on the hospital's front greeted me when I first arrived. And it has left a deep impression in me till today (besides the long line of villagers with big containiers queueing up for water at the public tap beside the hospital every morning and evening).

Today I visited the UMN website, and found it again.

Working in a pretty well-equipped medical facility now, I thought back at the little Mission hospital in the foothill of Nepal (the villagers call the hospital "Mission").

I still always wonder how the little hospital cope to provide adequate heathcare with their limited facilites (getting a CT scan means packing off the patient to go across the border into India, get the scan done in India, then come back with the films... if the patients is still alive by then), when here in Sabah we still find many limitations accessing healthcare facilities.

Probably, with limited facilities, we would develop better our clinical skills and acumen, and hope for miracles sometimes.

2 year old boy

Little boy turned 2 this week.

It was just not so long ago that he was the little fella who came out naked and crying, taking his first glimpse of light. Then the yellow boy came along. Then the chubby baby who had eczema rashes on the face and the ankles.

And now the cheeky fella who runs up and down stairs, tries to unlock the gate to go out and play, and crazy about handphone/camera/computer... and his milk.

Times flies. Never realised it, so fast, if not by looking at little boy grow up. Rarely look at the mirror. Don't know whether I got more white hair or wrinkles or not.

We brought little boy for a splurge at an American Restaurant. Well it's not always we spend like that...


Then again it's not always that little boy turns one year older. Emm American food ah, so so lah. Once in a while OK la. But not the kind of food that I'll keep going back to.

We've got folks saying they are delighted to see Ryan coz he's always smiling. I too wonder how come the little boy is always so happy. Is that why Jesus says we should be like little children? Good for him coz his dad is smiling less with more assignments to catch up with(or procrastinated with).

The smiling boy. Nice teeth heh.

Ryan goes to beach

It is nice that I am not working on-call this weekend. Though there's some work to be done at home.

Last week we drove a long long long way to Kinabatangan, then Lahad Datu, to witness Ian (Irene's brother) and Hana's wedding. The journey was tiring, but it was a great outing with the families.

We went to church this morning, and received a great message from the visiting pastor Kenneth Chin of ACTS church KL. Ryan had some kids fellowship with the other little girls.

Ryan has been pretty much a city boy. He gets very little sunlight, and does his joggings in shopping malls. So we suddenly decided to bring Ryan to the new waterfront park at Likas Bay. We passed that place countless of times, but haven't really stopped to check it out.

Well, since it's a Sunday evening, there were many families bringing their little ones for some evening fun at the beach. Great atmosphere. People picnicing, toddlers running around, kids soaking up in the sea, couples chatting, youths playing the guitar, old folks strolling... you get the picture. Add to it the soothing breeze and slapping waves, a picturesque sunset, and a rainbow at the background.

Ryan was having a great time obviously. Good time for the parents to unwind some stress too.

Maybe should organize picnic outings with the young families in church some time. A mat, some food and drinks, a short time of worship and sharing, then chat and watching the kids play. Sounds like a good idea.

Licence to kill?

1st Post Mortem report: "He died from fluid in the lungs. No foul play."

2nd Post Mortem report: "... found 42 other marks, burns and contusions from the sole of his feet right up to his head.... suffered hemorrhaging in his trachea, chest, spleen, stomach, the back of his neck and spine, and there were also signs of hemorrhaging in his heart. The soles of his feet had many bruises caused by beatings and he also suffered blunt trauma to his skull."

1st Post Mortem: ... "only examined the body from the chest up."

2nd Post Mortem: ... "examined the entire body."

And it took the family of a dead suspected car thief to pick out what the professionals missed.

We've got a death in police custody case, and they got the cheek to say "only examined the body from chest up", and still missed the "hemorrhaging in his trachea, chest... back of neck and spine... blunt trauma to skull". I want to pengsan already. They hired schoolchilren to do post-mortem?

It all stinks to the core. And all these blunder for the death of a suspected car thief? There must be prawns behind the stone.

Like this also can cover up, apa lagi the Mongolian case, the Correct-correct-correct case... how la to tell children to respect cops?

We can start producing CSI Malaysia.

From HERE.

Wise words

Spoken like a true leader of all Malaysians. Hope he's sincere.

Nik Abdul Aziz said the government should form a body to manage aid for the poor in the country and not cater only for a single group known as the bumiputera.

"I don't like the (use of the) word bumiputera. What I like is (use of the word) poor, for all races," he added.

He said the poor, regardless of their race, should be given assistance.

Unlike the outgoing-Lah guy.

From HERE.

Rainy season and the frogs

I read with great interest the drama that is unfolding in Perak, the silver state. My sister thinks Najib deserves an Oscar for the Best Director award.

So much have been reported on the printed and online media, you can read all you want. In politics there are no friends forever, and no enemies forever, that's what people say.

What are we expecting from those folks who are suddenly elevated to positions of power and hang a Yang Berhormat title before their names? Just because they are swept into position during the anti-BN wave of March 8th, we expect them to be more than human? The YB, by the way, translates into "The Respected Ones".

We expect them to look in contempt the millions of ringgit offered to them (allegedly) to jump ship? We expect them to say no to the luxuries and wealth that each of us secretly long for in our hearts? Big cars, towering mansions, overseas holidays, trophies of wealth... things that our society declare to be symbols of success in this world, we expect the YBs to shun away from?

I don't even expect pastors to do that, let alone politicians. Even though I really hope they do.

We expect the Perak Sultan in all his wisdom and high moral ground, to make a wise and fair decision that pleases all?

Are we expecting too much from mere men? The Book suggests a "better" way, if you dare to believe it.

For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God.
Rom 3:23

It is better to trust in the LORD than to depend on people.
It is better to trust in the LORD than to depend on human leaders.
Psa 118:8,9

Don't put too much hope on me too. I am going to disappoint you someday, and I apologize in advance.

Some attitude problem

https://mt.m2day.org/2008/content/view/17479/84/

Tan Sri Bernard Dompok, leader of the Upko political party in Sabah and Minister in the Prime Minister's Department, said the terminology is widely used in Indonesia and also in Arab countries by Christians.

'So it is a universal terminology used in the Christian world when they are praying in their vernacular language. There is no reason for the Home Ministry to continue harassing the Catholic Herald,' The Malaysian Insider reported him as saying.

His Cabinet colleague, Datuk Ahmad Zahid Hamidi, hit back at him last Saturday when he told Mingguan Malaysia: 'There are some non-Muslim leaders who are asking that permission be granted so that the word 'Allah' can be used, using Indonesia as an example.

'This is Malaysia. Do not equate us with another country. We are an Islamic country as stated in the Constitution,' he said, adding that there was a hidden agenda to use the word 'Allah' in the Herald, the Catholic publication.

Misquoted? Maybe. By the way, the report is from a Singaporean newspaper. I doubt any Malaysian newspaper would want to publish this, lest they want to lose Sabah and Sarawak in the next election.

So, if the word "Allah" becomes banned in Christian literature, you're gonna burn all the BM/Indon Bibles in Malaysia? You're gonna burn their songbooks and ban songs that contain "Allah"? You're gonna tear down signboards that contain the word, coz the word is now your copyright?

And you threaten your non-Muslim population with this?

'Don't play with fire and challenge the Muslims. We are willing to do anything to protect our religion,' he warned.

It never cease to amaze me how politicians take one or two sentence out of the Constitution/Law and stretch it as far as they like to justify their ideology.

Seriously, Ahmad Zahid Hamidi, I don't want this guy to be my country's leader. And also the party that condones this kind of attitude.